Matters of the Heart!

often times, we find ourselves trapped in the hall way of decision. should I leave him/her or should i still try? you do everything you can, yet no attention or consideration. A friend of mine called me one early morning crying, WOW!!! What can be the issue? She said "he compares me with others and at the end he says he is not ready for commitment" How can someone stand such humiliation and dejection?

For ladies, its rather sad when you decide to wait,  you could wait in vain for him. But for guys, you stand a better chance no matter the age.I would advice ladies to move on. Don't worship or wait for who does not deserve you. would you rather prefer to have a battered heart than a quiet life of peace?

Put your energy to useful things rather than feel low esteem of yourself. If you know your purpose in life, you would not be trashed and tossed aside.When he/she say's they are not ready; it's either your not their spec or you're just there to do time till the real deal comes. Many times, people look for partner because they want to be  free from boredom, looking for a mother in a woman or father in a man, sexual satisfaction, house cleaner,cook,etc.

wake up people and face reality. when you know your worth, you wouldn't waste your time on issues that don't matter. Do you wish to return to your senses when its menopause or have grown grey hair or worst  disfigured from your physic. its time you let go and move on. There is more o life than wallow in pains and rejection. if its not working, its not working. Don't push it. If its meant to be, it would surely stand and you  would be at peace( when God is involved).

THINK! ITS NOT YET ILLEGAL..............